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You know what I hate? I hate when people who should know better assume that they can't approach me when I'm pissed off about something.
Because the thing that will KEEP me pissed off is NOT being able to discuss the problem. And the thing that will SOLVE my anger is TALKING it over.
So it's absolutely worse than useless to try to ignore the fact that I am angry about something. Unless, of course, your goal is that I stay angry for a VERY LONG TIME.
My family doesn't hold grudges. We stuff and mount them.
Because the thing that will KEEP me pissed off is NOT being able to discuss the problem. And the thing that will SOLVE my anger is TALKING it over.
So it's absolutely worse than useless to try to ignore the fact that I am angry about something. Unless, of course, your goal is that I stay angry for a VERY LONG TIME.
My family doesn't hold grudges. We stuff and mount them.
