Actually, I am fully comfortable with the things we have between us (and doesn't that sound scary) because they are resolved issues, or resolvable to both of our satisfaction/utter exhaustion/disinterest in subject.
I don't really like the custom friends group, either, because then I have to figure out who I can include - if Person A is friends with B and C, but only talks to B, if I fuck up and leave Person C on the friends list, Person A will see it when they read Person C's journal.
And the secrecy issue doesn't make me happy either - "Here, I've spilled all my issues with you as a form of blowing off stress, but in a way that means I can wimp out on telling you."
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Date: 2004-03-24 02:22 pm (UTC)I don't really like the custom friends group, either, because then I have to figure out who I can include - if Person A is friends with B and C, but only talks to B, if I fuck up and leave Person C on the friends list, Person A will see it when they read Person C's journal.
And the secrecy issue doesn't make me happy either - "Here, I've spilled all my issues with you as a form of blowing off stress, but in a way that means I can wimp out on telling you."